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Yet another question about liking someone.. I like this boy.. a lot. And last weekend he said to me "there's something there but im still not over my ex" meaning he feels a spark but is still stuck on his ex gf who by the way was a complete and total B**** about breaking up with him and already has a new boyfriend!! and I respected what he said, and now, he says hes gonna call me and never does and doesnt talk to me nemore what should I do?? should i let him go, play hard to get?? fight for him?? what?!
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Maybe he just needs some time. They don't say breaking up is hard to do for nothing. Give him some time to relax and clear his thoughts, rushing him into a relationship won't make it any easier for him. Comfort him, let him get to know you more, eventually his interest will be focused more towards you than his ex. I'm sure things will work out as long as you give it some time. ]
To be on the safe side, you probably should confront him again. Try and talk to him casually. Ask, how you've been, what you've been up to. Also, try to in a casual way ask like," have you thought everything through. About what you want to be between us?" It's perfectly alright to go and ask him. If he bullshits you, then let him go. I know its easier said than done, but I'm going through this right now and lucky I wasn't in too deep, or it would've been hard for me. Don't be afraid to convey your emotions, you're doing this for you to be true to yourself which matters above all. You'll be surprised about how much you learn of yourself after this, and this only doesn't refer to courage. ]
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