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Lately I've been.....


Question Posted Wednesday March 14 2007, 12:48 am

Age:14
Sex: Female

Hiya,
Lately i've been asked out by like 3 guys. But i can't say yes because i still like my ex boyfriend. I'm tring really hard to forget him and i'm trying to say yes to the guys but they....they don't seem like a nice guy. Well i'll get to the point. Even though i'm being asked out and many people are being nice. I feel depressed. Well, i have some reasons and all, but it never bothered me until now. i went to my counsler but she just made it worse. My faimly has been getting on my nerves also and i've been really stressed. Less sleep and everything. I just let my self go. My grades were an A to a d. and only in one week. i've been a real mess. anyways to help me?


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karenR answered Wednesday March 14 2007, 12:17 pm:
Sure. Go out with one of the other boys who are asking you out. Get on with your life. Go out with your girlfriends and have fun too.

What you have to do to get over the ex is focus on other things. Start dating other guys and soon you will just be over him. You won't ever get over him if you continue to sit around and mope.

Can't hurt to concentrate on school work as greentea mentioned either. Just keep yourself busy. :)

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greentea answered Wednesday March 14 2007, 10:42 am:
Firstly.
When you're fourteen years old, boys although they're a fun pass time, should no be the focus point of anything.
These teenage love lives are not important, I doubt you'll be marrying this ex-boyfriend whom you still have feelings for.
So just do yourself a favour, forget boys for awhile. And don't go out with these boys who are asking you out just because you want to get over the ex, if you feel they aren't nice, trust your instincts.
Just mellow, hang out with friends and such. And try not to think about your ex, you'll know when you're ready for another relationship.

Why don't you try hard at school to keep your mind off of what's going on around you.

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