ok, theres this girl I really really really like, but I don't kno if she likes me that much though because she has told me im cute and funny and stuff, but I think that she likes this other guy. I dont rly kno y, but I have that feeling, u kno wat I mean. So I need some ways to make her like me more over this one guy, and ways to find out if she really likes him?
sizzlinmandolin answered Wednesday March 14 2007, 2:10 am: If she likes him, she likes him. She's not gonna get over that so there's nothing you can really do. You'll only be in trouble if he likes her back, which he prolly doesn't, well as much as you anyway. Just focus on getting her to like you and want to date you. Don't think about the other guy at all. If she uses him as an excuse or brings him up, don't try to turn her from him, just keep stressing how much you like her and how she'll never get that from him no matter how much she wishes for it to happen. Put the focus totally on you and she will too. The very best, almost guaranteed, way to get her to like you over anyone else is to show her how much you like her. Girls love to be loved more than anything else. If she'd never noticed you before in her life and she heard from a friend of a friend of a friend that you liked her, she'd suddenly, in her mind at least, become very interested in you. Make it perfectly clear that you like her. Flirt, be sweet to her, whatever it is you do. Good luck! :) [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
Teza answered Wednesday March 14 2007, 1:39 am: If you really like this girl, make an effort to get to know her better. Start talking to her more, ask to hang out,.. have a conversation. Once you're talking to her, ask her if she likes anyone. Don't try to win her over in any stupid ways but just make her be more interested in you because of your personality, not from something that you're not. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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