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ex BF
me and my bf broke up we just grew apart. it was great because we both stopped liking eeachother, all was good. exept the next day he went out with one of my best friends. she asked me first, so i wasnt mad at her, but i was kind of annoyed at him. like, but, it was kind of over the last week we were going out. but now like, we never talk. we said we would just be friends, but were not friends. i feel a little bad for him. my friend dumped him after a week because she says he was a loser. and now he was going to go out with one of my other friends (i was setting this up. enough time passed where i was okay with it) exept then he asked out a girl totally out of our group and she ejected him but shes like a ho no offense but shell date anybody and so now he feels like a loser and that everyone hates him. because now all of us are kinda p!ssed @ him bcz my friend hoo was going to go out with him was heartbroken. and then yesterday, me and my other friend were kind of yelling at him thro text, for asking out the ho. and so now, i just kind of feel bad i dont want 2b his sholder 2cry on or anything, and i dont want to talk with him in person but how can i let him know that the whole world dosent hate him? hes the type of person to start cutting himself over all this and like, i dont want to talk to him at all anymore but i dont want him to die!
theres a history with some of my friends for becoming suicidal when things go wrong and i just want him not to kill himself and be okay. btw you are a saint if ya answer this because it is way long and i just want another persons opinion bcause im pretty bias ya know?
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I think you should confront him, and tell him it will be alright. If you don't want him to cut himself, then you be the saint in his life and tell him you don't hate him and that no matter what, you won't. It doesn't have to be exactly true. but it will save you somt time to think about a second plan and not have to worry about him cutting himself. Just try it, i don't know this guy but i have been in a similar situation and this might just work.
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Okay? So he made a mistake and asked out some other girl. So what? Nobody should hate him because of that. Hate him for the right reasons. Not because you're like 12 & have nothing better to do with your life.
Just be there for him. He has no one else, and if you shut him out like everyone else, then you're no better than him.
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