ok....me and my BEST friend like the same guy...she said i could go after him...but i don't want to hurt her because she has liked him for a really long time...and hearing her say..."he likes you not me" made me start liking him!!!! and i don't know what to do!!! and we both think he likes me...he stares at me during volleyball and he is always taking my stuff and she says "flirting" with me!!! and i have no idea what to do
first you said that your friend told you that you could go after him. that is just her way of being nice to you. personally i think that you should talk to her about it and say that both of you should back off. i'm guessing that your young and there are plenty of other guys out there and it is only a matter of time before one of you likes someone new =]
but if thats not an option, you need to make sure that it is really and truly ok with your friend if you date this guy. also you need to make sure that he does like you. either ask him personally or ask his friends.
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