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why are they always up on my business?
Why is it that when i do something bad my mother goes and tells everyone in the family? Is it because family has to know?...or is she just trying to make me look bad? I just gots to know..cause my mom is always doing that to me and she even do it to my friend...he does something bad and she tells my family that my best friend did this or that..and it makes me look bad...my aunts are always like you should get new friends...but whatever happened to the good things me and my best friend do?...so I'm juss sayin is why do parents do this to us kids
-vianey 13/f
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Yup, moms get like that a lot. At least, my mom does. When I tell her something personal about one of my friends, or something that happened at school, I'll hear her an hour later, on the phone telling my aunts and her friends. She'll even go so far as to ask me, "Can I tell this to ___?" and when I say no, she goes on anyway. Don't worry, it just means she's involved with your life, which is more than I can say for some parents ^^.
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Because your life is important to them and like it or not, YOU are the main thing they think about and the main thing they want to talk about. You are your mother’s main worry, her main pride, her main concern and likely the main purpose of her life. So she talks about you. Of course she talks about you. What else would she talk about? The weather?
Yes it’s a little insensitive and unfair of her to be telling your extended family everything, but your aunts are concerned with you as well! If they want to hear about your so badly, maybe you should tell them about the good things. They might be delighted to get some information straight from the source.
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