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Is my boyfriend hiding something?
Well, me and my boyfriend have been together for about 4 months, he is 21 and i am 19. i had just asked him if he would give me his myspace password and he said that he wouldn't. He said that he had nothing to hide but that he felt that we should have our own space and if i did look through his myspace i would take things that his women friends write and take them the wrong way, (which i do alot.) He does have alot of women friends and i do get a bit jealous. So i guess i was just wondering if his answer was valid or is he trying to hide something?
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I do think it's important that both people in a relationship do have their own space - whether this means physically or emotionally. While of course you want to really get to know your partner or be around them, this can be quite claustrophic or smothering. People need their own space to recharge, keep their own identities, etc.
I suppose the only thing is that he's said you might have a problem with things other women write him. On the other hand, he openly said this and you agreed that you do have a tendancy to take things the wrong way.
Trust is huge in a relationship, and can take a long time to fully form. Trying to keep tabs on a partner this way can really make a relationship go sour. Ease off, let him have his space, and just see what it's like to believe him. If he's done nothing to warrant this level of worry, this issue probably has more to do with you than him.
I wish you the best!
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