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mean joke
during lunch i came a little late and i heard this popular girl yell across the room to some guy to "do it now". i wasnt paying attention realy, but i forgot about it later. then the guy she talked to came over.. hes popular too i guess, and i dont hate him or like him.. but anyways he asked me out and im like "no thankyou" and like half the cafeteria looked at me. i wasnt really embarrased because i dont have a crush on him at all but i guess some other people thought so, so they did the prank? idk well later i dont really care and i'll still treat him the same, but im kinda mad that they'd do that. like that girl.. alot of people hate her, and shes only liked by her friends, and some other guys i guess. but shes really mean.. i mean besides clothes why do people wanna be like them and stuff? there are good popular people and there are some really mean ones.. its so stupid. like what even makes someone popular? them having more money and flaunting it more? some people do that but they arent popular either. and i guess friends too? like i admit that around really popular people, unless they are my friends, i wouldnt act the same like if it were a normal one. i cant explain it.. its not like i'd bow down to them.. but.... i dont know. anwyays and theres this other popular girl whos friends with the girl that i think told the guy to play the "ask me out" prank from before, im friends with, and shes mean to like everyone except her friends. iguess im friends with her.. i can be myself, no worries, and shes okay. but i dont like the way she treats other people.. like she called this kid stupid and mean and retarded and etc all the time.. i mean hasnt she looked in the mirror lately? shes the one that keeps talkin to this kid.. i feel real bad for him but everyone thinks hes weird.. because he is.. but i wouldnt make fun of him infront of his face. i dunno, like alot of people can do that.. maybe i could but sometimes or alot of times i just think its morally wrong to do that.. should i stay friends with this girl? shes also kinda mean to some of my other friends and they say shes a bitch and stuff. like some guys in my class i sit with say shes a bitch but still talk to her (haha, or flirting?) i cant agree or disagree with because shes still nice to me... i hope im not sucking up.. i dont think so, because if i think something i'd say it and not just agree because they are popular. ugh bad way to think though. idk if im popular or not.. and i'd like to not care. i'd just like friends to hang around with and have fun.. and not by hated by everyone. and so far thats okay but sometimes i do feel selfconcious and then i start twitching a little (i can even twitch my ears! well it feels that way.. its weird) or something. sometimes i even talk before i think, which brings forth strange convos. and alot of times because im kinda quiet at times i guess people cant hear me. its so annoying, sometimes im just like "nevermind." because i dont wanna explain again. i know they dont say it to be mean, but like am ireally that quiet?? sometimes im not.. i guess it also depends on my mood. it sucks. how can i also be louder? ugh this question is all over the place so it helps when you read the whole thing. THANKS!!
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They probably did think that you liked this guy and was trying to embarrass you, but obviously your better than them. Im not going to say stop being friends with her but dont get to close to this girl. As long as you arent the one talking about people you should be fine. And This guy that is talking to her and about her, he is just being rwo-faced, He is telling both of yall what yall want to hear. AND FINALLY your last question, Try talking when you are alone. And make sure you listen while you are talking. I did this in school, or you can look in the mirror and talk to yourself. I know it sounds weird but hey thats what the teacher told us to do!!
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