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Question Posted Wednesday March 7 2007, 6:32 pm

I like this guy alot, but he is a really big sweettalker, and he has kissed my younger step sister and everyone sayz he likes my other step sister. But people also say that he likes me. I hate him but every time i see him i get butterflies in my stomach and i start to like him again. What should i do????

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Flaggal answered Wednesday March 7 2007, 7:38 pm:
He is a player! He wants to play you and your sisters! Heres what you do:
*don't fall for his sweet talk
*act like you could care less
*act as if you don't like him
*always seem like the bigger person
*act like yourself
*tell him "look, i have better things to do" or "i know that your plan is to get me...just to tell you..i ain't that easy"
*play hard to get
*when you see him, walk away.

These tips get this guy to realize that he made a mistake to think he can play you. it also makes him realize he's busted and that you are much smarter than him and he is not that great.

Remember these kind of guys always want you to fall for them so don't fall for these sweet talks:
*please, all i want is us
*you know they just hating
*don't hate the player, hate the game
*it's all just a lie
*you know we tight

If he truly likes you...he'll say sorry and tell you his whole plot!

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solidadvice4teens answered Wednesday March 7 2007, 7:14 pm:
Run for the hills! I'm being serious in saying that. The guy is bad news and he's looking to play all three of you for fools. He doesn't genuinely like or love anyone and is probably got his mind on one thing only--sex. Trust that instinct that says you hate and or distrust him.

He's a chameleon so don't fall for his charm. There's a reason why your gut tells you he's bad news. Trust your gut as it is never wrong. You and your sisters need to tell him you don't want him around before you or they get sucked into his web once more.

What should you do? Stay clear of him period. He kissed your little sister, now he wants your other sister etc. If you aren't careful you will become his next victim and wind up heartbroken and shattered by this creep.

Avoid this guy at all costs even though you may feel mushy about him because of his charm. He's not for you and you deserve someone who is. Your sisters ought to make him undatable by telling their girlfriends that he kissed one of them and came on to them both.

He's a serial player and won't ever break from it unless he learns to grow up and treat girls better. If you dated him he would cheat and keep getting with other girls all the time.

You don't need that crap so stay clear of him because your gut as i've repeated over and over on purpose is NEVER wrong. Any time you feel mushy toward him tell yourself wait a second this guy did X with/to my step-sister I'm not falling for his act. That's all it is--an act. He doesn't give a damn about you or anybody else or hurting them.

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DepthofHeart answered Wednesday March 7 2007, 6:44 pm:
Sounds like he's a player, a lot of guys like that are. And maybe he's not I don't know him, but do you want to go out with a guy who likes all of your siblings. Guys like him can pretty much make anyone fall for them. So don't, unless you actually do like him and you're convinced he actually likes you back.

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