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i hate my (ex?) best friend
i hate my best friend. we;ve only been friends for like 1 and 1/4 years we've never fought before, but now we fight like, every weekend. i always feel like its my fault, and she just doesn't get what im going thru, i've told her and she still doesn't get it. i just want time away from her, just for like 1 week, but if i'm not talking to her for like 2 minutes (like i stop talking and don't say anything again just 4 like 2 minutes WHILE WE ARE IN CLASS and im just doing what the teacher told us to, she gets mad) and then after shes mad, she goes and HAS to tell my other friend.... she always includes "that other friend" whenever we fight, she goes and tells them what we were fighting about and so iask the other friend what they are tlking about, so she (the other friend) copys and pastes it, and all my (best) friend is sayingis stuff that i do wrong, i mean i cant help it if im not perfect, and she is definetly NOT perfect. im just under soooo much stress right now, and fighting with her is just so annoying. and im starting to hate her but i don't want to lose her as a friend. how do i get less stress and stop fighting with her?
p.s.- sry its so long :(
thanx in advance
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Don't have the girl in the middle play messenger. If you wanna talk to your friend & know exactly what she's saying about you, then IM her yourself. Tell her you're under a lot of stress & nobody is perfect, and if she doesn't like it, then she should just get over herself. And if she doesn't change, then stop being her friend. I know, I'm basically telling you to ditch your friend & throw that friendship away, but why be friends with someone who can't accept your flaws & deal with what you're going through? Exactly.
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She doesnt sound like a real friend.
She is very needy.
I say cut her off. If you dont want to do that put her at a distance. Stop calling her as much, when she gets mad ignore her.
show her that you are tired of her nonesense.
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