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High School Flirt
Hi im a high schooler . i'm somewhat popular and not to be concieted but i like the way i look. anyways. i get guys ocasionaly but i dont really want them right now. except this one. like i dont want to date him i just wanna get closer to him and maybe do stuff wiht him. the thing is hes really popular and NEVER dates girls he just doenst want them so im afraid he wont do things with me becuase he'd be embarased or he doesnt want ppl to think all of a sudden he is going for girls and stuff ya know. well i jsut wanna know how i can get him better. ps. we flirt alot.
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Woah, this is seriously perfect. Think about it : you dont want to date him..he doesnt really want to date..so the best plan is to hookup secretly. When you flirt with him ask if he wants to hang out at your house to watch a movie ;) , suggest his house if you want, if you drive even better hehe.., go out to the movies, but i suggest driving somewhere,or hanging out at one of your houses to make this a secret hookup. When you flirt with him drop hints..like ask him..waht do you think about just hooking up with someoene secretly? or something like that :)
hope it all works out
-melissa-
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Well its hard to say what to do. It kind of depends on the guy, and what you want to do with him. If you just mean that you want to be a friend of his, then make it look that way. Talk to him on the phone, email him, do friendly things, don't flirt an unessisary amount. Flirting is good if you want a guy to hit on you, but from the sounds of it, he doesnt want to hit on girls, so you should try and flirt alittle, but not as muh as him. Give him a friendly smile, and talk to him as if he's one of your best friends. Once you build up the relationship alittle bit, confide in him something. Not something mean liek that girl is sucha _______. Tell him about your a fight with your parents or a problem you're having that he might be able to help out with. By doing this you are relaying trust in him, and by doing this, he will begin to realize that you arent in it to go out with him, you're in it to have fun and hang out. Then once you become friends, you can become more if you decide that you still want to make that step. By becoming a friend first, you aren't making it look like you're hitting on him, and you are building up a strong relationship, and if you decide to go out with him, you will have a great basis. Also, he may start to fall for you, once he sees the sides of you few people who dont know you see.
Yeah it make take some time and effort, but you can do it. And if all else fails, you'll have a great new friend right?
Hope I answered your question, good luck. Lot of love,
Angie91
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