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revenge
okay my boyfriend cheated on me multiple times.
i really need to get back at him. how can i
make him really jealous or heartbroken?
and trust me when i say this.. HE DESERVES THIS
i know that revenge isn't good but sometimes
there is exceptions. dont start lecturning me
because i wont listen. k thanks
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I can say that the mature thing would be to move on with your life & completely write him out. If you try to come up with some revenge, it shows that you still care & he still means something to you. The last thing you want to do is give him any attention. Yes, being cheated on is a horrible feeling - I've been there twice with 2 previous boyfriends. & I can understand you wanting to "get back" at him. But in the end, it doesn't solve anything. So be the better person, continue on with your life, & find some better people to spend your time with. Trying to make him jealous is immature. But if he sees that you're happy without him, you're absolutely free & he, just might, see what he's missing out on. :)
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Cheating as in how? Kissing another girl? Sexually flirting with another girl? Having sex/messing around with another girl? I have been in the same boat. And I will tell you revenge is sweet to a point, but it can backfire and make things worse. With that caution note said, I always go with the rule "An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth"... Now I am not saying to totally whore around either. If he kissed someone else or flirted way too much, do it back. That shouldn't be difficult to do. Find a guy friend or even better, one of his friends and come up with a plan to piss him off! Trust me it works. I did the same thing. My bf had cheated on me on my prom night! And to make it worse, he dumped me the next day for the bitch. And what did I do? Hung out and flirted all over his best friends. I would show up at his school and pick his friend up for lunch. And then I would make out with this guy he absolutely hated. He was so much more hot then my bf too which made him even more green with envy. Now if he was messing around or having sex with another girl/girls that is crossing the line! Kissing and flirting is bad, but messing around or having sex with another girl? That is basically telling you that all he wants is pussy and that he is an immature, self-centered, son-of-a-bitch that deserves what is coming to him. And trust me honey, he will have that happen to him someday and will see how it feels. So you better dump this asshole and make him feel like the piece of shit that he is! Now don't go around and start randomly hooking up and having sex with people. You need to have respect for yourself. But you can always do what I put up above. Or you can plan to spread a rumor about hooking up with his best friend, as long as his best friend doesn't mind lol. Either way, it could get messy, so steer away from anything to manipulative. Either way, dump this boy quick, if you haven't already, and make him realize what a HUGE mistake he made!
~Sherah
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hang out with him and then go up to a guy while your bf is beside you and flirt with him
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