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b/f or friends?
im 13/f,me & my boyfriend hav e been going out since sept 21 '06. It was all cool until like December when we started get fights. My friends and him don't get a long, my best friend and him hate each other!! they've tried to make it work for me but they ended up fighting again. They both said they wouldnt try to fix their problem its just not going to work, well everyone wants time with me and stuff. But im always busy with school,and my boyfriend (his name is going to be Bob)... Well im almost with Bob,and want more time with my friends, but then when i go hang with my friends me & bob end up fighting or me and my friend start fighting because of Bob.
Now Bob says im treating him badly or Whatever.
What do I do to fix my relationship with Bob & my friends??
Any help is appriecated greatly.
Sorry for any mistakes in this im in a hurry.
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What I think is, a true friend wouldnt mind about you going out with "bob" but your friends are very important too. Wow this is tricky. Um, i would probably sit all of us down and talk about why they hate eachother. Or, you can talk to "bob" and try to explain to him your friends mean alot to you too. and same with your friends but explaining how bob means alot to you. If it doesnt work out, im very sorry, but you could also try talking to one of your parents or a guidance consuler or hey, and friend that isnt in this problem.
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hey! im very sorry to say this but i sort of think you should break up with Bob. i know that right now, he probly means a lot to you and you really like him adn would hate to see him go, however you will find a new guy that you and your firends both like. because i know people always so dont listen to what your friends say, its what you think that matters. and that's great advice and all, however, you chose your friends for a reason. because they were nice, you liked them, and you trust them. so, if you trust your friends and they hate your boyfriend. they probly hate him for a reason. and also, you dont want to get in fights with your friends over your boyfriend, because in the end. your friends will be much more important to you than the one boyfriend you have now ever will be.
good luck!
hope i helped!
xoxoxo
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