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i have never

Question Posted Tuesday February 27 2007, 11:03 pm

i have never kissed a guy. i've had boyfriends but only in 6th&7th grade. i'm a freshman in highschool and still no kiss. i mean guys have kissed me on the cheek but i don't think that counts.

i had this party and i was playing this game with all my friends[including guys] and someone asked if we have ever kissed someone. none of the guys said yes and only one girl did. so does that mean that i'm normal? i really want a boyfriend but i never really make it a point to always talk to boys, i have friends that i never stop talking to:p

thanks in advance[sorry its kinda long]

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XoXoXoXo77 answered Wednesday February 28 2007, 2:09 pm:
by 14 most girls have kissed guy..
but its completely fine if you havent.
the person below me is right.. some girls dont get their first kiss until 18. so dont worry about it at all.
to get a boyfriend start talking to guys more. make it a point to talk to them. they like the attention.
xo hope i helped

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xcheerbabex108 answered Wednesday February 28 2007, 1:15 pm:
I think it's fine that you haven't. It's really hard to say when you get a first kiss, because I've known some girls that have gotten their first kiss at 18! But honestly, it's normal, and I wouldn't worry about it. It will come naturally.

P.S. To get a boyfriend, if you fine someone you're interested in, maybe you could start chatting about a movie, or music, and then, ask them to hang out. It always works for me.


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BitsandPieces answered Wednesday February 28 2007, 12:15 pm:
Yes you are very normal sweetie! Plus, most kisses in highschool or below absolutely are below standard of what will be much better kissing later. So don't be jealous or worry over missing out on could get better action kissing the mirror in most cases;0 Ha-Ha.
Take the opportunity to tell the guys you know and feel comfortable with that the most common kissing mistake guys make is kissing with too much tongue and slobbering...EWWWW! Tell them to slow it down and keep it light and soft. The girl should ALWAYS be the one to determine the speed and degree of intensity in making out anyway and you should never be rushed by a guy. The guy can make the first move, but the girl gets to take control of the speed and the brakes. Think of it like a car. He opens the door for her, he can pick the mood music and turn up the heater with his charm, but she is in the driver's seat controlling the speed, the brakes, the gearshift, the steering wheel everything. He is just lucky to be there along for the ride of his life!!!

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chuckweed007 answered Wednesday February 28 2007, 11:11 am:
Yeah, absolutely that is normal. Don't rush it either, your first kiss is something you will always remember. I'm a guy and I was 16 by the time I got my first kiss.

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luvbug555 answered Wednesday February 28 2007, 1:33 am:
yes, your 100% normal.
please dont rush into your first kiss just because you think everyone else did. it should be special

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Solaris answered Tuesday February 27 2007, 11:48 pm:
Yes its normal. There is no designated age to have your first kiss. Some people even wait till marriage, which I think is awesome. So your're not different, or out there. You're perfectly fine, and dont worry about it.

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