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love what is it and how does it happen?
right this is guna sound weird but do you realy like some one then start seeing them then you love them??? and what is love??? please help me out
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let me put it short and simple.
you know when you love someone.
there are no questions or concerns. you just know.
if someone asks you if you love someone and you say "hmm well i dont know i guess so.." that isnt love. love is when you can say "yes" and be 100 percent sure about it.
i know its hard when you want love and wanna know how its found and when youll have it. but itll come. and youll know. and itll be wonderful. thats all.
hope that helped.
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Love is different to everyone. Trying to explain love is like trying to explain frustration. You can't. It's a feeling. A reaction. Everyone reacts differently. The one thing you should keep in mind is that love isn't permanant and can be applied just to certain acts. You can love a particular act. I love it when my boyfriend smiles. I love my boyfriend when he tells me how beautiful I look. That doesn't mean that I love him. I just feel love from some of the things he does. That's why it's okay to tell someone that you love them even if you're not sure. Love is just a feeling. It can change. You can love someone one day and not love them at all the next. That shouldn't keep you from saying it if you think you really feel it. You don't keep from telling someone that you're frustrated with them just because you may not feel the same way later in the day. The same rules apply with love because love is in the same category. Actually loving a person takes a long time to develop. Many people mistake lust for love. Being attracted to someone isn't love. It can be part of love, but not the whole deal. Love is really complicated and you won't know that you love someone until after it happens. I know the exact moment I fell in love with my current boyfriend, but at the time I had no idea. It wasn't until about a year later that I was able to define it. The reason lots of adults say that teenagers are too young to love is because of love's complexity. Teens aren't intellectualy, emotionally, or physically mature enough to understand love. A teenager's brain just isn't developed enough. Even so, teens can still feel love. So, it's okay to be confused about it. Everybody teen is. A lot of adults can't even understand it. The thing is, knowing what love is or that you're in it isn't important. Once you know, nothing changes. Just be grateful for what you have, whatever it may be. :)
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hey! well to answer your first question once you start seeing someone that DOES NOT mean that you automaticly love them. it takes time. lots and lots of time. my boyfriend and i have been going out for 5 months, and we still havent said i love you. and thats not because we dont like eachother, but its because were not ready for that. saying i love you is a very big step in a relationship, and you shouldnt say it unless you are positive you are. now ideas everyone goes around saying I LOVE ____ the day the ask them out, but really they just like them. were still young, and really don't have enough experiance to know what love is. and me being young, i dont know what love is. but im pretty much positive that once you are in love, it will be completely obvious to you, and you wont have to question it at all. it's like lauren from the hills says, "love is not a maybe thing, you know when you love someone"
good luck!
hope i helped!
xoxoxo
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