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Nobody notices me...
Ok, I don't mean to sound all baby-ish and be like "oh u should feel bad for me" but nobody notices me. I have depression and I have done stuff in class I shouldn't do, and nobody has noticed. My friends tell me they would notice, but they never do. I want people to notice me. I'm ugly and i feel fat compared to everybody else, but my friends tell me i'm not. I don't believe them. In a way I want to become popular, and I know I want to have ppl and guys like me. Any suggestions? Without being to harsh please!
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I am extremely skilled in this kind of problem. When I was 10, i thought I was fat, and I developed a eating disorder. Anorexia. And I cut myself, and I thought i was fat, and ugly, and i would never get a boyfriend. But, If i could re-do everything that happened at that stage of my life I would do what i'm telling you to do now: Tell your friends, tell your family, tell anyone who you think could help you. I recoverd, but to do that, I had to go to a therapist. Tell someone. Your beautiful. Anyway, guys prefer curvy women
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ok, chances are, you're not ugly or fat, so you might as well just throw that thought out of the window. and as for people noticing you, try to talk to them instead of waiting for them to talk to you. try to meet a new person in school every day, just gather up some courage, and go talk to someone. soon enough, you'll get to know more and more people and they'll see you for who you really are. here's my view on it: more people= more freinds. more freinds = more popularity!
I hope i've helped in some way.
~Nikki~
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Popular? Why?...
If you're the quiet type, people might feel intimidated by you or something, since they'll think "oh, she's too cool to talk to us" or something. If you're the loud type (not a bad thing really), they might've heard enough of your voice, so much that they can't hear it anymore, know what I mean?
There's no such thing as ugly or hot or sexy or beautiful. You're you. So what if you're fat? I bet you anything you're much better than everyone else. Don't let these things put you down hon...We were all fat at one point (unless god created a Barbie doll with a heart and lungs and all).
There's one thing perfect about everyone: the fact that they're imperfect. Popularity won't do you any good. Attention? Recognition? Trust me dear, you'll live without those.
I'm 18. I still live like that and I'm lovin it.
Stay strong. No one can put you down.
<3
Kay.
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