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I don't want to love him
Ok, so there is this guy who I can't manage to get out of my head. He is the sweetest guy i've ever known and i've fallen so hard for him. And when he's not around I can't help but feel sad. I don't want to feel this way because he's someone that I would never get a chance to be with, and I understand that... because well, he's my teacher and I know how that's wrong and whatever, But I can't help how I feel at this point... People say they think he likes me because he's the playful type, I guess, and he touches me and stuff like that... Nothing too serious though... Anyway, I try so hard to find something wrong with him or to ignore him so that I could get over him, but he always comes around and says something sweet or funny... The point is, I'm about to graduate in a month and knowing that i'll probably never see him again is killing me... I havn't felt like myself because of this whole thing and it's bothering me... I guesss I just want to know how I can get over him or any other advice anyone might have on this whole thing...
thanks so much... 19/f
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Hey. Well maybe at the end of the year you can get like an autograph book and ask him to sign it. See what he writes in it. If it's completely obvious that he likes you by what he writes than at least you'll know for good. I mean from what you said it seems like you already know he likes you. As for you getting over him, this is never easy. Maybe once you're away from the school you can always come back and visit and it might be less awkward to tell him how you feel or at least give some hints. If you feel that that's completely wierd than you're going to have to keep yourself busy. Just don't think about him. It's honestly like a bad habbit such as anything that you can't stop so you have to push yourself. It might get stressful since you see him every day but you just have to concentrate on other things. Eventually, you may not think so now, but eventually your feelings for him won't be as strong. I'm not sure about the age difference between you guys but if it's not so big, why not tell him how you feel when you leave the school? I know, it's harder than it sounds but it could be true love. Whatever direction you take I'm sure it will work out. I really hope this helped and good luck! =)
Chrissabelle<3
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First how so does he touch you.
Many teachers are swee and have a funny side...
He may like you I would have to se his actions towards you to justify if he really does like you or just is like this to all his students...
Many girls like there teachers its normal but its gonna be hard to let go but you will get over him because you are about to leave soon
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hey, alright well if you guys both have an interest in each other, ONCE YOU GRADUATE, go for it. i understand you not wanting to have a relationship with him while hes teaching you, but whats holding you back after you graduate? if its age, age shouldnt matter. if you guys love each other, than its acceptible. the only way to get over someone is to stop seeing them completly. considering hes your teacher, for now thats impossible. there is another way tho. you can meet other guys. fall in love with one of them and make him not look so great anymore.
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