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Virginity
I have a cousin who looks up to me and asks me lots advice about sex, but I havent actually had sex. There is one question that she asked me, and I couldnt help her. Her bf was fingering her, and she said that he was going really deep, and she said that she started to bleed. I know that bleeding when you get fingered for the first time is normal, but this was deffinately not her first time. Did she pop her cherry, or could it be something else?
Thanks!
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Bleeding while getting fingered at any time isn't necessarily a common thing. Bleeding could come a result of a torn hymen, a scratch internally, etc.
If her boyfriend was being particularly rough (or not, but just has untidy fingernails!) he could have created a tiny tear. This might not even be causing your cousin pain, but it could be enough for there to be bleeding.
Of course, this could also be the start of her period.
It's good that you offer your cousin support, but do make sure you feel comfortable giving her advice - and that it's accurate. Do let me know if you've got any other questions.
I wish you the best.
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