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I dated a guy for a month and 2 days. We broke up clearly out of the blue, never one fight or anything. We saw eachother alot got along great. He called and said we needed to talk and we broke up because he "didnt want a gf" and he was "going away to college" but college is in the same town. And i live a block away from that college. So when he does go to college he's only moving closer to me. he said he still wants to be friends and for the past two weeks nothing has happaned. I texted him last night and he said we couldnt talk on the phone but only through texting. He answered my first question to why we broke up and he said he just doesnt want a gf. and that we moved to fast. But he always made this first move for asking me on a date, asking me out, kissing me, and etc. I never did any of that so its not my fault we moved to fast. I asked what he wants to be wtih me other than a gf cuz i know he doesn' want that. He never answered so two hours later i texted him saying thanks "al" now i know what you want that pretty much answered my question.
what do i do
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Okay, well first of all, it sucks that you guys broke up, but it sucks even more that you dont know why. So heres what I'm thinking, probably, he wants to break up and see other girls, but he didnt know how to tell you that. Like if he came up to you and said, "hey, I don't like dating you anymore, I'd rather go out with that girl over there, well see ya later." So he was trying to let you down easy, by telling you all of these stupid excuses that don't make sense. But really all he wants is out. It kinda sucks, because he was just trying to do you a favour by not being mean, but truthfully, you probably would have prefered if he had told you the truth.
Well then you texted him and asked him what he wanted (which was a good thing, don't get me wrong) and he was sortof a jerk, and didnt text you back. But I guess what he was trying to do was just cut you off so that you wouldnt bother him any more.
Thats another thing about this that really sucks, because girls usually want to keep being friends or at least something, when guys just want to let go. So I guess unless you can get him to tell you what he wants to be with you, you should just assume that he doesnt really want to hang out anymore. That is actually a good thing, because it will help with moving on.
when you have to move on, usually all you want to do is see him one more time, but if you know you cant see him, then it will help make moving on faster. If you want some moving on tips, let me know.
I think I answered your question, but if you need anymore help definatly let me know. Thanks for asking me, and don't hesitate to ask. Hope everything goes okay. Love ya,
angie91
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