How do you know if you have had an orgasim or not? My boyfriend had fingered me before, and it has felt great but I don't know when I have an orgasim or not. I know when I do it myself sometimes, I get this chilling feeling in through my legs and back. Is that when I get one, or does it feel different than that?
solidadvice4teens answered Monday February 19 2007, 11:15 pm: Everyone discribes an orgasm differently. Essentially, what happens is that your muscles below start to tighten up and then you feel a release in a series of little ripples that arepleasurable or one big one like that.
Judging from the feelings you are mentioning when you are by yourself I would say you are experiencing them as that's indeed what does and can happen during one. It can feel more intense than that too.
As far as wanting to achieve one with your boyfriend don't get all concerned or stressed about it. It happens naturally and getting stressed or upset that it isn't or hasn't will actually make it so you don't experience it at all. [ solidadvice4teens's advice column | Ask solidadvice4teens A Question ]
leLovely answered Monday February 19 2007, 10:51 pm: You'd know. It probably is that feeling that you get when you do it yourself, but I'm not really sure. All I can say is that when you get one, you can tell. [ leLovely's advice column | Ask leLovely A Question ]
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