tired of helping everybody else out with their problems
Question Posted Sunday February 18 2007, 10:23 pm
well alot of my friends come to me for advice and help with their problems. i usually dont mind helping other people out because im good at it, but it seems like no one ever asksme or cares about wahts going on with me. like today i was in such a bad (sad) mood and all these people kept asking me for advice and it was just hard to deal. and so i would not talk as much as usual, then they'd ask if i were mad at them, i'd say no i'm just in a bad mood, and they'd continue to talk about themselves and not even ask why or care. and then there's this guy and i used to kinda like him but now i dont and all he ever does is ask me for advice with this one girl and it still kinda hurts. i just dont know what to do,
milliethu answered Sunday February 18 2007, 11:34 pm: well, they come up to you and talk about their problums, dont they? maby you could get a better reaction if you just told them (one at a time) that you are going through something instead of waiting for them to ask. they most likly just arent used to you having problums, so maby they dont know what to look for to see if theres annything rong. just remember it is ALWAYS better to be upfront with someone instead of trying to get them to guess.
hope i helped
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