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Miami Flordia with the Boyfriend. 14/f.
Ok; my boyfriend and I have been getting very close the past two months we've been together, and we talk about everything. We were talking one day and he asked me to go to Miami Flordia with him and his family [Mom, Dad, Two little sisters, One little brother, Cousin] this summer. I know my mom trusts him completely, and my dad is on his way. But the thing is, we will be staying down there for a week. I just need some ideas on how to ask my parents if I can go. They won't like the whole "spending the night" part. And I really don't think we will do more than kiss and spend time with eachother. Can someone give me ideas to smoothe it over with my mom and dad?
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With my experience. I think you should confront your mother first. Pull her aside, and explain whats going on. Tell her that you aren't wanting to or am planning on having sex with him on the trip. Make sure she sees that his Whole family is going. Tell her you were talking to her first becasue you didn't want your father to over react at all. Let her think about it if she wants.
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Why don't you tell your mum and dad that they can speak to your boyfriends parents.. it works for me! :)
Maybe talk to your mum on the side and tell her your not ready for anything to happen and your boyfriend hasn't or wont give you any impressions on anything sexual happening.
You will obviously be supervised by his parents.
Don't be mad if they say no.. act mature and they will respect that.. they will remember it for next time! :) ]
The best way, is to ask your boyfriend if his parents could talk to your parents. That way, your parents can have any questions answered. ]
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