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public humiliation.
I have a feeling that this guy, who knows I like him, might diss me in the middle of the school cafeteria... dont ask why i know this.
What should I do when this happens? Any tips?
and pleaseee don't tell me to confront him earlier or anything, i know the public humiliation is coming.
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Hi,
You could try having something to fire back at him. First, you've sort of got to think of what he could possibly say or do to try and humiliate you, and be prepared to completely blank it out. If he succeeds in humiliating you, there's nothing you can do during, or after, that will have any effect.
On the other hand, a cup of (hot coffee might be a bit much :) cold water or milk in the face might be fun to do. Of course, this should probably be done smiling.
Apart from that, don't you have any dirt on him? Get ready to fling it at the right moment. But don't rush and stumble over your own tongue. Perhaps practice quietly at home ^_^.
Luck!
-K
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Honestly, act super confident. Don't let him see you break. Don't fire back at him. Don't cry.
Maybe stand there and listen to him, try to look bored with the situation, then when he's done, smirk at him and just ask "Are you done?" then walk away. Or something like that.
Maybe even giggle a little bit at him while he's talking. He'll think his plan is backfiring and start to feel embarassed. If you look like you're not bothered by him at all, he'll be the one that looks rediculous. If people ask you about it, say "his immaturity was a little pathetic, but I can't help feeling a little sorry for him". It shows YOU are the bigger person, and it will make him look like a petty little kid.
Good luck =)
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hey, well dont like a guy that will diss you in front of EVERYONE. you can do a lot better then that and im sure you deserve a lot better then that. act like you dont care, even if you do.
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okay when it happens, just act like you really dont care. what do you think hes going to do exactly? or say? give more information about this.. send it in the feedback, and i'll reply again. why would you like a guy that would diss you like that anyway?
EDIT: hmm... well those people obviously dont have anything that great to do in their lives if they spend so much time trying to make you get embarassed. i still stick to my advice. dont give in. dont back down and please them. act like you dont care, or even laugh at what the guy is saying so the time he and that other girl took to make you sad is really wasted. are you like a shy kid? do you really care about like.. being confronted in the middle of the cafeteria? these are things to consider. just get prepared. have confidence in yourself so you dont start bawling and make a fool out of yourself then and there. what do you suppose he might do, anyway? or like ask a guidance counselor... or your parents.ooh or like another boy so that you wont get as badly hurt if you still kinda like him.
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