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accused me of liking my friend's bf?
Ok, i have this friend friend named ana, who has a good boyfriend that cares about her soo much and loves her soo much, and i get along with her boyfriend a lot and pretty much hang out with him lot hes like my brother to me. but one day ana's close friend marie came up to me and said this to me
her:do you like joe?
me:joe? which one
her:ana's boyfriend
me:no i just treat him as a brother
her: no you dont, you really like him so BACK OFF
and then i was like what the heck? because marie accused me of liking ana's boyfriend and i felt really disapponted because it seems like ana doesnt trust me, so the next day ana talked to me about it and she was like "oh i didnt tell her to say that just said you and joe are close and marie got paranoid about it because she thought that you gonna take him away"
so i told her "im just gonnakeep the distance around you and your boyfriend" so this is not gonna happen again but ana keep saying" noo dont"
but i was like "im just gonna stop hanging out with you guys for a while because you get the wrong idea and even though u say u trust me, you still think i like him" and next thing i know she cried about it and she said" its like you're breaking up with me' what should i do? should i keep the distance around them? cause im tired of this and it made me upset, even though marie said sorry to me and she said"sorry about that i didnt mean it so, are you gonna talk to her?" and i was like " i guess?" but in my mind its just awkward and i feel like i wanna keep the distance around them and now its pretty much awkward to me but what do you guys think i should do? im pretty much confused. =[
sorry im not good at english I'm from Philippines
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Well, you say joe is like a brother to you so if he really was your brother would you egnore him, I dont think you would because you guys love eachother in a brother sister kinda way, not like relaitionship love. so we know maria's wrong and you dont like him that way...So you just gotta think hes like a brother to you so, you dont just walk away just show ana that you take him as a brother not a crush like only hang out with her and him, or dont like accedentally flirt because i know i do that sometimes and im like oops i dont want him to get the wrong inpression you know?I hope I helpedā„
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I think the whole thing was just a big misunderstanding. If Ana told you she didn't think that, then Marie is obviously just trying to start trouble. Don't worry about it and just stay friends with Ana and Joe. There's no reason to just stop talking to them over this. If it happens again, then you should try to get other friends. But for now, give them another chance.
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she is your friend, and he is your friend. It just sounds to me like marie is jealous or something and doesnt want you around the other 2. I would just keep hanging out with them and keep marie out of the whole thing. And since Ana was really sad when you told her you was going to keep your distance you should just hang out with Ana and her bf anyways. None of this stuff would be Marie's buisness anyways, its like shes telling you who you can hang out with. She cant tell you that, so just hang out with them anyways.
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