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my guy friend likes my close friend
i have this guy friend named mark that likes my close friend ericka and my friend knows about it and she reaally doeesnt like him because she says hes stalkerish or obsessed.I gave him advice or cheering him up when he was hurt, he tells me a lot of secrets about it. And of course i dont tell my friend even though she begs me and asks me what he says about her. So one day my friend wants me to tell him not to talk about her anymore to people. and my friend is mean to him and told people that mark likes her.And it made him really mad. so we were chatting online and i told him to not to talk about my close friend and stuff after that i changed the subject and this is the convo.
me:so who pisses you off the most?
mark:guess
me:people who tease you?
mark:and people who tells other people secret
me: oh are you talking about ericka?
mark;sure
me:are u over her yet?
mark:no i was trying to but you brought up the topic
mark:thanks
me:noo i didnt
mark: yes u did
me:w/e start over
mark:dont talk to me anymore
me:why?
mark:dont
me:ok bye
and he signed off on me and he hasnt talk to me because of this i mean what did i do? its really small arguement but i dont get why he doesnt wanna talk to me anymore. Was he using me or what?
sorry its too long and my english is bad
im from Mexico
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well you dont want to ferget wut happen, so you should talk to the g/thats a friend and tell her it made him mad at me snd i dont think thats right:[
And then you know marks not a salker he just really likes her, and you should also tell her that you dont judge a book by its cover meening give him a chance, you never know... you know hes nice so tell her and if she does decide to go out with him he'll like you as a friend again and not be mad at you but like i said dont let it all pass by talk to him about ur feelings and he'll tell you y he got sooo mad...I hope i helpedā„
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Don't apologise. Your english isn't bad at all. Mark is not pissed with you. He's pissed with erica and you happened to be present at the time when he felt horrible bout the whole incident.
He's just venting his anger out on you, but he's not angry with you. You're right in ending off by saying 'ok bye'. Leave him alone for now. Let him cool off first. His self esteem has just been crushed and its all thanks to erica. It's a horrid feeling. Imagine your crush telling everyone you like him and being mean to you. How's that?
I can't conclusively decide if he's talking to you SOLELY just to get close to this girl. But it could be one of his reasons for befriending you. Or you could start talking to him randomly bout anything. But NEVER ever start with "hey areyou still angry with me?" or talk about erica. Cos in both situations, it'll turn out awkward.
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I think he's taking his hurt out on you. He is hurt that your friend did those mean things and he is wrongfully blaming it all on you.
You need to try talking to him face to face. Tell him you feel you did nothing wrong and you're hurt that he said those things to you and you were only trying to help.
If he still acts the same, then just leave him alone for awhile so he can deal with the rejection. I'm sure you guys can be friends again someday and if not, it's his loss.
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