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idk what to do
me and this boy have been together for 9 monthss.. i like him so much! theres this other guy though, we talk alott.. and we hang out every now and then, and i have feelings for him too. When he wont talk to me it hurtss mee.. and when we do talk i like him, but sometimes more than others..
I cant just stop talkin to him though, cause i like himm... even though i know its wrong, because i have a boyfriend who i also like a lott.. i dont want to leave him he treats me so good, i feel like such a bad person though for having feelings for someone else
what can i do.. or what should i do?
ah i really need help : (
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forget about your feelings for this other guy..may sound harsh but its OK to have them...but while you're wish someone you like just as much or more, don't act on a relationship that might not work out as well as your current one. Hold on for a while and see how you feel. Maybe discuss it with your boyfriend, gently.
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unfortunally, ive been in this situation before. and i felt like the worse person, not only because of what i was doing to my boyfriend but also thinking to myself " this aint me. " because i know i wouldnt like it done to me. your best bet is to probably break uhp with your boyfriend, as bad as that sounds because i know its something you dont want to do. but i just looked at it this way, imangine if the boy your liking found out you have a boyfriend OR what if your boyfriend found out that had feelings for someone else ? if you break uhp with your boyfriend, tell him you still want to be friends and keep a real close relationship. also still stay talking to the boy you like. because that is no where near cheating. in the end, you will find out who you like more, your " ex " will still see how amazing you are and the boy you like could end uhp as your new boyfriend. best of luck!
<3brianna
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MMM. Sticky situation. :{
I say just dump the guy you're with...
He'll get over it.
That way, you can flirt with both without creating any conflicts.
It'll save a lot of troubles in the long run
"Been there-done that"
Good luck.
-Jam
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Sorry Chik....theres no getting out of this one..ur just going to have to follow you instincts.....obviously you like the other guy.and ur b/f is sure to get over it.
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