Question Posted Thursday February 15 2007, 4:40 pm
Well they say two wrongs don't make a right. I was told that you cannot prove a person guilty of something with evidence you were not given permission to collect. Does the same go for relationships? I found out by logging onto my girl-friend's email that she asked her friend for advice about a guy she said she liked. She denied she did this to me. The law says to let it be since I had no rights to find out on my own about it but will the same apply here in this situation? If I did not sign into her account, I would not have found out about this guy in the first place.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BriannaBaybee05 answered Thursday February 15 2007, 11:23 pm: I know that was wrong for you to do that. but ive dont it before =x and trust me, i saw / read things i didnt want to see. but unfortunally it was for the best. i realized what he was doing behind my back and realized that i wasnt the only girl that he had feelings for, so i had to be strong and end it. not something i really wanted to do, but im not gonna be in a relationship if its a lie ? and you shouldnt be neither. if she is having feelings for someone else, why is she still with you ? she cant even say its love because when your in love, the thought of another person doesnt even cross your mind. i dont care if you had to be sneaky to find out soemthing like this because how else would you know ? obvisiously she wasnt gonna tell you if shes denying it. be a strong person and realize what you gotta do.
Brandi_S answered Thursday February 15 2007, 5:40 pm: The evidence you are talking about has to be eligible to be used in a court of law. Also, to collect such evidence without permission by the person, or a judge is a violation of rights.
As for your situation, what you did was a violation of her personal rights.
Honestly? I wouldn't use it against her. You were wrong for going into her email account- you had no business doing so. Realistically, you should be ashamed of yourself for doing this. It was an immoral act for you to invade her privacy like that.
My advice? Like the law says: let it be. Either drop it and get over it, or move on with your life. I STRONGLY advise against ever doing this again. You had no right to do it in the first place. [ Brandi_S's advice column | Ask Brandi_S A Question ]
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