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Me and my boyfriend dated for a year and 9 months. We were very close but we broke up over a month ago because he says we need space. Now we arent going to date again (he said maybe next year.. but im not waiting that long) Yes i do love him, i love him alot. But its hard to love someone when they dont love you back and want to string you along til next year. Although me and his roommate and me have gotten pretty close, and now we sort of have a thing for eachother. His roommate doesnt know i have a thing for him i just told him we'd talk later this weekend when he told me that he really liked me. What should i do. this happans to be my x bf of almost 2 years roommate.. (they arent the best of friends either..)&& what do i say when me and his roommate talk about our liking towards eachother?
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Ok, so you seem pretty clear that you don't want to go out with your ex boyfriend again. Thats fair enough he wants you to just sit around waiting for him until he decides he wants you back. Thats not fair of him, it seems the best thing for you to do just to try and get over h im, you're too good for him. It might take time, but the sooner you're over him, the freer you'll feel.
So the issue with his roommate. Do you think it's going to get in the way of their friendship? Do you think it will be awkward because it's your ex's roomate? I don't really think any of this would be a problem. When you talk to this guy, be as honest as you can be with him, tell him how you feel, what you want to happen. If they're not the best of friends anyway, it shouldn't really affect their friendship. See how he feels about the whole thing...
Make sure you're feeling happy and confident in yourself before getting in to another relationship. When you've been with someone so long, its easy to feel kind of lost without a relationship, and a lot of people then jump in to new relationships very quickly without getting over the first. So take your time over everything, make sure you've moved on completely from your ex, you've given everything time to settle down, make sure this new guy doesn't think there'll be a problem with you being the ex of his roomate, and then go for it!
When you talk to him, just be honest, be you, and everything should work out ok!
Let me know if I completely missed the point of that, and I'll see what I can do! God bless xxx
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