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Question Posted Thursday February 1 2007, 12:37 pm

okay well i had this boyfriend "dave" and we went out for a month & it wasnt really serious, we didnt really hang out much or anything but we've known eachother for seven years. After we broke up he wanted me back & i really didnt want him then. but then he found a new girl & shes kinda a slut so they've done more than we did.

after tehy started going out i relized i had feelings for him & i tried telling him & said he liked me too. they broke up & he still wouldnt go out with me.. they went out again and now hes a jerk to me but i still like him a lot. A week or two ago he said that we would probobly end up going out again in the future & sometimes he IMes me with stupid song lyrics & i act like i dont care about him.. is that the right thing to do? & how can i get over him? hes the only one i feel comfortable with & hes all i think about. they've been going out for three months too. i feel like a loser but ik i can find someone else i just dont want to.

thanks for ur help,
14/f


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kenidean answered Saturday February 3 2007, 6:53 pm:
You were okay when he didn't have another girl, because you knew he was still attatched to you. But now, he has a girlfriend and you've become jealous. You can't do that. If he's all you think about and he's the only one you feel comfortable with, then I'd say you want him back. When he iMs you will silly song lyrics, don't act like you don't care! Show him that you do care, and then maybe he'll want you back too. You guys have known each other for seven years, you don't want your relationship to end, even if that means just being friends. You have to understand that you can't be jealous if he has another girlfriend. Do you WANT to get over him? Or do you want him? That's what you have to ask yourself. Good Luck!!

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