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I have a guy problem...
Hi. So here's the thing. There's a guy I like and people keep telling me, "You should ask him out! Go for it! He's totally into you!". So, I've decided I'm going to ask him out. The only problem is...how do I do it? Isn't the guy supposed to make the first move? I'm too shy to just go flat out and ask him straightfoward if he likes me. Is there a subtle way to ask him? I guess I'm afraid of him saying "no". We're friends and I don't want to ruin that, so...any advice?
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plan out what you want to do with him as a date, because that will be so much easier. say you want to go to a movie. talk to him, then ease the conversation into movies, then to a particular movie, and say, "we should go. like, just the two of us?" and try and sound kind of hesitant and shy. but NOT TOO MUCH.
oh, and it might work out better if you ask him to do something better than a movie, because thats such a cliche. maybe go for a walk on the beach, or to a carnival or WHATEVER.
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if ure totally against flat out asking him, maybe u could beat around the bush a little and start up a conversation about who he likes or he thinks is attractive. this could be a smoother way than just asking Kristen
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