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Member Since: January 30, 2007
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Hi. So here's the thing. There's a guy I like and people keep telling me, "You should ask him out! Go for it! He's totally into you!". So, I've decided I'm going to ask him out. The only problem is...how do I do it? Isn't the guy supposed to make the first move? I'm too shy to just go flat out and ask him straightfoward if he likes me. Is there a subtle way to ask him? I guess I'm afraid of him saying "no". We're friends and I don't want to ruin that, so...any advice? (link)
if ure totally against flat out asking him, maybe u could beat around the bush a little and start up a conversation about who he likes or he thinks is attractive. this could be a smoother way than just asking Kristen


okay so i have this big surprised planned for my boyfriend. it is taking place in his basement but there is a huge problem. i have to have a little time to set up and i have cheerleading practice after school until 5 and he is weightlifting until 5 also. so how will i get to his house before him and be ready for the surprise and myself ready. PLEASE HELP!!! (link)
see if u can convince one of his friends to distract him after 5 or one of ures


are we kissing right? me and my boyfriend just move eachothers tongues in and out and i make my tongue like a scoop each time. the reason y i dont think its right is because its all we do and i get bored. so we have never made out for over like a minute. he tried flicking his tongue and stuff like that and i just wasnt comfortable with it. maybe because ive never done it? i dont know i just didnt like anything except for the scooping. are we doing it wrong then? (link)
theres no "right" way to kiss. however, if you get bored u could try biting his lips or his tongue and maybe kissing his neck or ears when u get bored.


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well i like this guy. hes 18. hes really nice and we hang out alot. were friends. he doesnt know i like him and i dont know if he likes me. once in a while ill catch him lookin at me. but hes the kind of guy that doesnt show his feelings at all. like his ex gf, when she called he would go in the next room and talk and when someone would ask who it was he would be like "dont worry about it". i wanna know if he likes me but i dont want to tell him and find out that he dont..cause i would feel weird around him when we hang out. we never hang out alone. we are always with one of his friends and sometimes one of my friends. what should i do?
is there any signs to show that he likes me? (link)
Guys can be really hard to break down. If he looks at u a lot thats a good sign. What I would do is try to get him alone with you (if possible) and see what happens. more than likely, if he likes u, he might make a move or tell you so


does anyone have any tips on " moving on " or possibly " winning your bf back" ahha thanks (link)
to get him back: it depends on why you broke up in the first place if you broke up just to break up then theres a vry big chance u could get back together. but u have to give a little time for everything which sucks!


my name is Jay i'm 13/m/north carolina. I extremely like this girl and when i finally ask her out, she rejects me. SHe was the girl of my dreams!! That was about 2 weeks ago but i still like her. What should i do? (link)
it may seem like the end of the world but trust me, shes not the only person that will take your breath away. be patient and the real love of ure life will come along


me & my bf are totally in love.
but we graduate this year and are going to dif.high school.help? (link)
i have a situation like ures but mines much worse. my boyfriend lives in another state and i see him once a month at the most if im lucky. trust me, its hard at first but if you care about each other enough youll get through it


that you have no classes with, barley see, and how do you make a girl laugh? and please dont say tell a story or something it doesn't work. (link)
Jokes are probably not the best way to go if you want to talk to her. Sometimes they end up making you look goofy, so if you want to talk to her try complimenting her or maybe just smiling and saying hello can break the ice


okay well i'm 13 & the guy i like is 16. is that bad?? like he gives me signs that he likes me too but all my friends are going "laura, he's 16." & i go "so?". i just want to know if that is too much of an age difference. (link)
Take it from me, I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 24. Just because hes 16 doesn't mean nething. It doesnt mean hes a child molestor and it doesnt mean your daydreaming. it can happen trust me. (when my boyfriend was a senior i was in 6th grade)




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