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should i stay mad at him or start being nice to him again?
ok well this story is kinda long so i apologize. anyways well this guy and i were getting along great together. it started in my art class when i didnt even know he existed but he was aware of me. he would try to talk to me and i would but i wouldnt be crazy about it. but then he started to grow on me. and i started to like him. so i would talk to him he would talk to me, he would tease me, play with me, walk to class with me, actually walk with me alot, stare at me, and he did this thing where he would always ask me to do favors for him and i would smile and kinda soft yell thing and said no and so he kept doing that and it would be like, "can you get my shoes or books?" ect and then one day in the lunch line he asked me for another favor and i thought maybe you should say yes and i said yes and he said nevrmind and im like what tell me and he told me he just wanted to see me mad. so this went on for a while untill one day all of a sudden he stopped talking to me. ignored me and everything. he walked with me to class but as we were walking it was just silence and we would always be talking about something. i would try to talk to him and hed ignore me and i didnt know what was up. so i tried to plan what i was gonna do with him everyday to try to get things back to normal but they didnt work. so i said i give up and gave up on him. and so i wanted to get over him really bad because i was feeling pain becuz i missed everything we would do. so i thougt the best thing to do was to get mad at him. so here and there he talks to me but i ignore him or talk in a mean tone. but today which kinda shocked me he started flirting with me a little bit. he was blocking me from going up the stairs and i was happy but i didnt show any smiling. my emotion was kinda like leave me alone i dont wanna be bothered with anyone right now. ok so here is the whole question. am i doing the right thing or should i start being nice to him letting this being a wake upcall telling me there is still hope? or should i keep being mean to him??? and why do you think he stopped all of this?? that someone heard my best friend and i talking and told him. and then if i should be nice to him how do i talk to him again?? thank you so much and sorry this letter was so wrong. thanks again:)
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In the end it's up to you if you want to be nice to him or not. Guys are wierd. I think they mess with us and our heads just to mess with us! If you still have feelings for him then maybe you should be nice. Maybe something was going on in his life that caused him to act the way he did. Everyone has stuff going on in their lives. Maybe he was just out of it. If you really want to know ask.But you shouldn't be mean(You can play hard to get if you like)until you know what was actually going on with him. If you don't have feelings for him anymore you should atleast act civil, you still have classes with him right? But it's your decision.
I hope I helped & Good luck
-Jasmine
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i think you should slowly, but surely let him in again. be a little nicer, but don`t just all of a sudden go back to like before. talk to him. ask him why he was ignoring you and stuff. figure it out.
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i feel that you two tend to be too sarcastic towards eachother and don't get your real feelings out. i would be nice to him, and not make jokes as much unless he seems to want to. just don't be jokingly mean because this can always be misinterpreted. i've learned that the hard way.
i'd smile at him and start to slowly talk with him again. if he sees that you're willing to talk to him then he'll put in his own effort if he likes you.
i hope i helped! good luck
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You have to ask him why he was ignoring you before. Since he is talking to you again, maybe you will be able to get him to tell you.
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