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liking other guys
y am i attracted to pretty much every guy? i check out almost all of them even ones i dont even think are cute. and i cant stop liking other guys. i've been with my bf for 10 months and i love him soooo much, but y cant i stop liking other guys? i dont want to i want to be like fully commited to one guy or whatever. y cant i? and hes saying next time i do that he'll leave me. i cant blame him though because ive liked like 9 other guys while ive been with him. the reason i think i do is because my parents have always told me its ok to like other people. but that cant happen i love him too much. how can i stoppp?
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My mum's boyfriend looks at other women. Sometimes he comments on them. This doesn't mean that he isn't committed, it just means that he likes to look every now and then. As the saying goes, there's no harm in window shopping. So long as you don't sleep with "pretty much every guy" you're doing nothing wrong.
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this all goes with the saying "you always want what you can't have". since your with someone itd make sense that you look at other guys and are attracted to them. its a weird thing. but its the way we work sometimes. when we've been with the same person for a long time (and 10 months is deff a long time) we start to look at other options around us. even though we may love the person were with. id be lying if i said guys didnt do the same. its just your hormones.
just think about how much your boyfriend means to you. and why it is that you've been with him for as long as you have. obviously hes important to you and its only fair that you try and see past the other guys and focus on the great guy right in front of you. many times we dont realize how lucky we are to have such special people in our lives, and once they are gone, they're gone. so keep in mind why you love him so much and how ud feel if he was out of your life.
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I don't think that you start "liking" every guy. I just think that you're one of those girls that love to flirt and love attention and there's nothing wrong with that. If you really love your boyfriend as much as you say you do, you know better than to hurt him and I know that's not your intention. Another reason that you might want to go for other guys is because you can't. I know it might sound weird but you probablly like the freedom of doing what you want with guys and with a boyfriend, it's hard to. You should just talk to your boyfriend if you already haven't. Just let him know that it's natrual when you check out guys and that it doesn't mean anything. If you really wanted them, you would of broken up with him. People just go through phases and it's same with guys. It's just because you're attracted to them and you automatically think you like them. Maybe taking a break would be a good idea for the both of you. Just see how things will work out and take it slowly.
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well it seems like a tough situation here, its hard you seem like you like to flirt and you cant really help that but i can understand why your boyfriend gets angry at it because like wouldnt you get angry? its jealously though. People cant help jealousy. Stopping is gunna be hard but ttry and like when ur in the stoeres or where ever you are focous on something else like if u see a boy its alright to think he's cute but dont be like DAMN I WANT HIM. and if you keep wanting other guys your boyfriend is prolly gunna leave you so like be careful and see what you want more
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