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best friend have sex with my exboyfriend?
I know this is random. But I think my best friend had sex with my exboyfriend a couple months ago. I know its horrible to think she would do something like that and guess about something like that happening. but shes had sex with other guys ((*i think shes rather a sl*t)). and she always flirted with him during and after we went out. ever since me and him broke up she was acting wierd around him since then. i can see something between them and its wierd because they hate eachother now. do you think i should say something next time she mentions him or acts around him??? we dont hang out all together so if we all see eachother its akward. :( advice please?
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You have the right to know, so yes ask! Don't accuse her of having sex right off the bat, because it could be totally off & she may get mad at you for even considering the possiblity. Simply ask if anything happened between them in the last few months. Explain why you think so (her attitude towards him, etc.) Try and draw something out of her. Just remember not to jump to conclusions during the discussion. Have you ever thought that she could dislike him because you two broke up? I don't know the situation, but if he cheated on you or broke up with you in a bad way she could be bitter towards him for hurting you. You never know until you ask. Good luck : )
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i think you should just leave it alone unless you think she slept with him while you guys were going out then its not really your problem. If niether one of them are bringing it up to you then its between them. Its your best friends lifestyle not yours so just dont worry about it. it would be a diffrent story if you thought it happened when you two were dating. if you do think that he cheated on you with her then i would ask her about it..doesnt mean shell confess...but if it turns out that he did cheat on you with her or you just strongly believe that it did happen then you should forget about them both and find a new bestfriend. who needs enemies if you have friends like that. but its not worth the negativity to stay in that kind of relationship.just remeber it takes two and he must have not been that good of boy friend if he was flirting with her or cheated.
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What difference does it make? Really, if he is your ex, and she isn't dating anyone they are free to do what they want to.
I know it probably makes you feel bad, but nobody has wronged you. So mention it if you want to but try not to be mad about it. Life goes on. :)
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