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Help!! My best friend is going out with the boy i like
Ok so, my best friend is going out with the boy i like and she knew i liked him..she would ask me everyday at lunch.."Do you still like Matt??" and every day i would awnser "Yes" and then she turns around and goes out with him what do i do???
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Yeah...this kinda thing happened to me before too. This one guy that I liked for like 3 months was about to ask me out, and I went to his house for a little party, where there were 2 guys including him, and 3 other girls including me. We went swimming in his pond, hung out around the house, and about 1/2 way through the day...one of the other girls decided she liked him too. She was a lot more forward to me, and two days later, he asked her out. Now, this was at the beginning of the summer, and I brought this up to the girl that went out with him. Now, she told me that she liked him for about a week before they went out, when I ended up liking him for a grand total of...wait for it....7 months altogether. It tore me apart, but I learned that I just couldn't trust her...because she had known that I liked him. People do strange things, but I suggest that you just try to talk things over with her, and ask her why she went out with him. Establish that you DO still like him, and ask her what made her want to go out with him. Now, since she kept asking you if you liked him, that probably means that she's liked him too, and didn't want to hurt you by dating him...but she just got tired of waiting. That isn't exactly a good thing, but still, try to to talk it over with her, and see what happens. Keep me updated if you need more advice.
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I would definitely be talking to her about this, and see what she has to say. Explain to her that you don't feel right, having your best friend date the boy you like, after her knowing that you liked him. Listen to what she has to say, and then I would take it from there. Depending on whether or not you still want to be her friend. If you would like my opinion on what I would do, I wouldn't be her friend. Only because I feel that it's disrespectful for someone to do that to her best friend.
Good luck!
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A friendship should mean more than a boy so talk to her about your feelings and you want to know why she went out with him knowing you still like him. Just don't let it get in the way of you friendship.
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Talk to her, and explain your feelings. But don't harp on it again and again. Just let it go, your friendship should mean more to you then a boy and you shouldn't let it get in the way.
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I would talk to her about it. Ask her why she is going out with a guy you like, knowing you like him. Either a very dense friend, or a very disrespectful one.
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