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boys are crazy.
ugh, guys. i have 2 guy friends (that are each other's best friends), and one of them likes me. i definitely don't like him, but he won't give up! it's really annoying and stressful. i'm considering breaking off our friendship. but i really don't know if i should.
Also, his best friend is... really amazing. I think i might like him. i'm trying not to, but we get along so well, and its sorta hard not to. I just don't know what to do. i doubt he'd ever like me...so i should just give up, right? that seems best for everyone (theres a ton of girls liking both guys, by the way) but should i take my own feelings into consideration?
ah i'm confused.
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Okay first, just dont talk to the first friend who likes you about the love thing, it makes the friendship awkward and if he brings it up just say we are friends and i would like to keep it that way. and the second friend, go for it. if you guys get along so well then just flirt around and give it a chance.
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Guy #1- If you don't like him, make it as clear as day to him that you aren't interested, and if he keeps pursuing the matter, your friendship will have to come to an end. Assure him this isn't what you want to happen. If he chooses to continue, he isn't a very respecting friend for you anyhow.
Guy #2- If you decide to pursue him, do it full knowing and understanding that if he is a real friend, he will say no. If he says yes, then he isn't very respecting to his best friend. I doubt their friendship would be the same if he said yes.
Guy #1 has a choice to make, and so do you. Choose wisely.
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So the guy that likes you won't stop trying? Well you should see if he is a good guy. You might see something amazing in him. For the guy you might like you don't want to cause something between them since there best friends. You might have a chance with that guy though. So talk to him and see if he might like you but you know just normal conversation and then just slowly go into asking in who he might like. He might like you. But I hope everything works out for you!
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