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Really great girl I cant bring myself to act on, driving me
I've had several chances to have relationship, one with a girl that probably would have been good for me and one that probably wouldn't have, but I dismissed any thought of their being more than friends from their minds before anything could develop, as usual. I've always been looking and reserved myself for that one amazing girl that will make having a serious realationship worth it, you know? but just when I think I've found her, she turns out to be interested in some other guy, who's interested in her, and I cant be selfish enough to not be happy whe she tells me about how their relationship is finally working out, despite all the obstacles that have been in her way, and how happy she is, because I have to be happy for her, she's too wonderful for me to be selfish enough to want her for myself, because I know I probably cant make her as happy as this guy can, and this guy is really great, I can tell, just by the sheer amount of work he's put into getting their relationship started, and I cant tell her I have feelings for her because I know if I tell her, things will be weird between us, and I really dont want that to happen because I really want her to have a person she can always talk to about anything, and if she knows I have feelings for her, she'll feel like she has to hold things back, and I dont want her to have to feel like that when she's talking to me, I just want her to be comfortable and honest with me, so I'm in a bad place, but I dont complain, except now of course, but I dont like people who burden other people with their personal problems, so I try not to be one of those people, so sorry if I am burdening you, I just wanted to let it all out in a burst of emotion like right now. sorry this was so long and I understand if you dont answer
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you obviously love this . you want her to be happy, even if she's not with you, which is real love. you should really tell her because if you don't you'll spend the rest of your life thinking about what would have happened if you had told her. i'm saying this from a s point of view that sometimes we pretend to be interested in other guys because we think we're not good enough for the guy we truly love or we think he's interested in someone else so we try to hold it back and just pretend to like someone else so it doesn't hurt us. if you tell her your feelings for her you should tell her that you don't want to ruin the friendship and that you're happy for her if she really loves the other guy. then she'll think of you as a amazing friend because you actually care about her and it's not just you being selfish.
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