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i don't know why but ever since i tried smoking it keeps com
Iam 17 years old and i tried smoking a few weeks ago with my cousin who is 36 years old i told her that i wanted to try and she let me if i promised never to do it again and i promised her i wouldn't so she let me smoke and for some reason it keeps coming up in the converstion or somebody else brings ciggerates up every since i've tried it and that's never happened before.
I'll give you some examels my cousins and i was playing a game it was called truth they asked you questons and you had to answer them and truthfully and my cousins boyfriend asked me if i ever tried smoking and i was like ummmm.......yeah i have.
Another examele is that my cousin traci who is 15 keeps telling everybody that i tried smoking when she smokes herself and shes only 15 and she's been smoking ever since she was 11.
Another example is my cousin traci was smoking a ciggerate and she offered me one and i said no thanks i promised chelle i wouldn't smoke again and i was sitting right beside her so some smoke got in my hair so when my cousin came home she thought i was smoking becouse my hair smelled like it so she thought i was smoking even though i told her that i wasn't.
there's onc more example at school today my teacher was teaching us about smoking at school and what it can do to you and she dosn't even know that i tried it what should i do please help me.
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i think you are focusing on not doing it. that is not a good thing to do. you should focus on doing something else. if you focus on not dong something, then you will ultimately end up doing it, because you are thinking of it. it can sound a little wierd, but it is true. just try not to think about it and when you do, remember your promise to your cousin. hope it helps.
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I think you're letting your guilt for trying a cigarette get the best of you. You know it's bad for you and you know it's wrong for someone your age so now you're getting a little paranoid about it.
As long as you are keeping your promise to your cousin never to do it again you have nothing to worry about. And dont be embarrased about trying it either, trying it is not a big deal if you only do it once.
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Your family is saying these because they know youve smoked. i think the teacher is only a coincidence, but i think everything happens for a reason. maybe the teacher teaching you the consequences of smoking is a sign to you, not to smoke again. ur family should trust you, but smoking can be tempting, and your cousin probably knows how tempying things can be. she probably trusts you, but shes worried about you, and shes probably seen friends of hers give into smoking or somthing, and getting into trouble
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