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i have been going wth this guy every since october
my cousin/friend likes him
what should i do because all hell gone break loose if i catch him with her
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I'm not very sure what your question is, are you saying that your cousin likes your boyfriend and you are worried about catching the 2 of them together. Well trust is the basis for every relationship, if you feel as though you can't trust your boyfriend (or your cousin/friend for that matter) then it doesn't seem like either of them are very good friend/boyfriend. If your boyfriend cares about you then he won't cheat on you and if your cousin/friend cares about you then she won't put him in that situation. Basically, you have to trust the people around you, if you don't then you are going to be paranoid that they are always plotting against you and in the end it is going to tear both relationships apart. Calm down, the worst thing that could happen is that they would cheat, okay you move on and get over it. If this happens, then neither of them are really worth much, and you should surround yourself with some better people. Hope you don't think I am being rude, I am just trying to show you that if you keep thinking this way then you will never truly be happy with him, and Im sure you don't want that. Have faith in him and if he screws it up, lose him and find someone who is worth it and will treat you right.
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If you like him stay with him...you really don't have to break up with him just because your cousin likes him...you have to trust him until he gives you a reason not too...and set down guide lines with the guy...I know when I started dating my girlfriend if she ever cheated on me there is no second chances...and weve been together for 1 year and 8 months guide lines help relationships succeed
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Ok; if she likes your boyfriend that you have been dating since October, then she isn't much of a friend now is she? You just need to sit her down and tell her that you like this guy alot and you need to back off. And, you also need to trust your boyfriend to not be with her. Because, what is a relationship without trust?
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Well it really depends on how you feel.
If you really like him, stay with him.
It sounds to me that you may not trust him as much as you should since you said "if i catch him with her." If he does that, then that's when you should break up with him. But why ruin a relationship if he's not going to do anything [ or if you're not sure he will. ]
You also have to think about who you care about more. You'll probably always have your cousin/friend. I'm sure they'll get over it eventually, besides, she's family.
I hope I helped! ♥
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