well my best guy friend is going out with someone right now. at first i was like omg good for you & i was all happy for him. well he has liked me for a long time & even told me he loved me. well he told me he still likes me. i'm like ew um gross? i don't like him. kay well i was looking at his girlfriend's myspace & i see a picture of them on there kissing. i saw it & i seriously about cried. after a while, i went to my media player & played the song your guardian angel by the red jumpsuit apparatus & cried for a long time. i really don't know why. do i like him or something? because when i think about it, i don't like him at all. but then i find myself wishing for him at 11:11!! & i always dream about him being my boyfriend. help me!!!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? daydreamerrrr answered Monday January 22 2007, 12:04 pm: well dear, only you know if you like him. but it seems to me like if you cried to that song, and almost cried when you saw the picture of those two, then you do have feelings for him. i can say i deff. know what youre going through, because my best guy friend and one of my friends were going out, and i didnt think i liked him until i saw them together, and so we finally talked about it [they had been dating about a month] and he felt the same way, and we're dating now, and i dont think i could be anymore happy, so i think you'll have to talk to him, and tell him that you dont know if its because you like him or what, but i deff. think if you find yourself wishing for him you probably like him. good luck dear. hope this helps. [ daydreamerrrr's advice column | Ask daydreamerrrr A Question ]
Teza answered Sunday January 21 2007, 11:12 pm: I can't answer your question about you liking him or not because that's really for you to figure out. There has to be a reason that you cried and I don't know why you did. You obviously have SOME feelings towards him. Maybe you're afraid of losing him to his girlfriend? Are you afraid that you guys might lose touch? That could be why but if you're always wishing for him to be your boyfriend, you might actually like him. I also think that you're afraid to admit that you [ actually ] might like him just because he's your best friend. You have mixed feelings and it's hard to figure it out but this is something that only you can solve. I wish I could tell you if you had feelings for him or not, but you'll know. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx answered Sunday January 21 2007, 11:11 pm: Well hes ur best guy friend and if uve been friends for ages thats what you see him as. But maybe you do like him alot more than just friends and your jelous that hes found someone else he might love. If you cry over a guy that much and dream about him odds are you like him. You can either accept it and move on or, you could tell him that you like him. Its hard because he does have a girlfriend but who knows. I hope everything works out =] Love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx [ xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx's advice column | Ask xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx A Question ]
khadiya answered Sunday January 21 2007, 11:10 pm: You just want him because someone else has him. Its just lust. If you and him was put in the situation where he wanted to be with you again you probably wouldnt feel the same. [ khadiya's advice column | Ask khadiya A Question ]
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