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Will we last?
OK me and my boyfriend have known each other for a very very very long time and have always been best friends. We started going steady this year and it is working out very well... and we love each other VERY MUCH! But we are only in the 7th grade and we are only 13 and i dont know if we will be able to last for a long time..
DO yall think we will be able to last???????
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Well, transitioning from being bff's to bf and gf is pretty awkward. No one can tell you if it will last or not because no one knows what will go on between now and in the future.
But don't fall for him so deeply. You guys are only 13 and it's a little to far ahead to be thinking of the future.
Just enjoy what time you have with him now and savior every minute of it. Don't be too persistent or clingy and such stuff..
But here's a positive information: my friend Heather has been going out with John since 6th grade and they still are...after 3yrs.
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*Sighs*
In the seventh grade I got caught up
in the feeling of "love." Or so we thought.
Love to us, was actually a huge crush.
I'm not going to say love doesn't exist
in seventh grade, because in some cases it can.
I'm just saying most kids mistake crushes
and lust just for love. So keep that in mind.
In the words of Lauren Conrad: "Love isn't
a maybe thing."
If you're having doubts about how long
you two will last or how strong your 'love'
is, then most likley you haven't quite reached
the full love stage. You're just on your way.
You two have to trust each other,
be willing to compromise for each other's
futures, and be willing to meet each other's
emotional needs. This is difficult in a
young age.
Good Luck <3
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i was in the same situation, but now we're over. but it seems you two are doing alot better than we were. if things stay the way they are now, and you two stay best friends, not only boyfriend and girlfriend, but also act as bestfriends and a couple at the same time, i think that might help alot. hope things go well!
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It's hard to tell. Because you have been best friends and known eachother for a long time, that helps a lot. As long as you both put forth the same amount of effort and keep your communication going, you have a great chance. Best of luck!
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