hey! okay i was planning on asking this guy to sadie hawkins dance. well, hes in one of my classes but hes a sophomore. im a freshman.and we kinda talk were kinda just like friends. and i think im gonna ask him to the sadie hawkins dance. but he might wanna go with another sophomore not with a bunch of freshman. it will be nice if he doesnt care but yeah lol im just kinda scared of him saying no. I just need some comfort or confidence so i can ask him. :] im scared of rejection too:[
Well, I shouldnt be talking when I say you should just get over your fear. But, Ive learned the hard way that you can miss out on great oppertunities when you are too scared to do something. Even if he says no, you still accomplished something - you were brave enough to ask him! Last year, I asked a guy I liked to a dance. He said no because we didnt know eachother well enough and he wanted to go alone, but I didnt care because I would have HATED myself if I didnt take the chance of asking. I think you should do it. I know the fear of rejection is there, but you should be more afraid of missing out on life! Whats the worst thats going to happen if you ask him? He'll say no. But he might say yes! So go for it. [ xomichelle891xo's advice column | Ask xomichelle891xo A Question ]
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