Me and my boyfriend andrew have been dating for about 11 months..a long time i know but lately i dont feel the same about him anymore. i mean i dont want to feel like i wasted a whole year on someone that im just gonna change my mind about but i cant help it. lately he has been getting on my nerves and embarrasing me in the littlest ways. and plus i just started liking another one of my friends named ryan, he seems perfect for me but i have liked him before and it didnt turn out so good. lets just say i got shot down and i really liked him. now i kind of got the hint from him that he kinda likes me but i have no idea what to do. if i break up with my boyfriend i dont want to see him all depressed because i care about him alot i just dont love him anymore, i would still want to be friends with him but i dont know if he would want to be friends with me. please help me!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? not_your_star34 answered Sunday January 21 2007, 3:05 am: You shouldn't be in a relationship with someone you have no feelings for. A relationship like that is unfullfilling, and staying in it will only succeed in making you unhappy. That's going to affect him, too.
It would be best for both of you if you ended it now. Doing so would help you sort out your feelings, and it would give your boyfriend the opportunity to find someone he cares about who feels the same way about him.
Even though I think you should end things with your boyfriend, I DON'T think that you should go out with this other guy immediately after the split.
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