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Suspicious worker...
Alright. So there's this worker at my community (complex condominum (sp?) And he works here every day, whether washing cars, or watering the plants. He looks 25-30, and he's a gangster hispanic/latino. And I'm a 15/f. Well, I just find him ABSOLUTELY weird and suspicious! OMG...It happens every time. I walk outside to take the trash out or to get the mail, and he is watering plants (today). Of course it's obviously inappropriate for a 27 year old guy to talk to a 15 y/o other than saying hello right?...well he said hello, and as I was taking the trash out, he stopped watering the plants (he had a cigarette in his other hand) and he came up to me REALLY quickly and drunkedly (sp? lol) said "let me get this for you" and he opened the door to the garbage disposer. I know it seems "OK" but the way he said it was SOOO weird and evil and...it was like he wanted to "get" to me or something! It was in his eyes ;_;...and as I was getting the mail, I noticed him spying on me. I don't trust these kind of people...and i don't know what to do. He works here every day. Now I know the kind of advice that is going to come to me; "Tell your parents". But I don't want to do that...because I don't want any trouble. Any tips on how to avoid him if he gets too close?
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If you have a feeling he's suspicious, he probably is. It's human nature to sense out those kind of things. When I was younger, I was always so creeped out by my mom's new friend, he made me so uncomfortable, he was so nice though, I didn't understand. Turns out he was schitzophrenic and literally insane.
Tell your parents, see what they say. If he makes you feel any more uncomfortable you could probably talk to the community supervisor or something like that.
Or next time he talks to you just tell him to get the fuck away from you.
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Let me tell you a little story. I was at my friends house for a sleepover and we got bored watching movies and went outside and just laid there on the lawn talking about random stuff (This is well over midnight) Then 2 guys from the house behind hers (They were over 30yrs old at least) came over and sat down next to us one with a beer bottle half way finished and one smoking. And I was like hmmm, weird. And I kind of just sat there staring at my friend. Then she just like got up and walked away and I was like OMG WTF. And I was wanting to get away with her but they held me down with their stupid conversations. I know, pretty mean of my friend to just ditch me there for 5min. But anywhos, that was pretty frightening and finds out she was raped that way (by some other people but in a similar situation)
So if you feel uncomfortable or unsafe around some people that you don't trust, just walk away. If he says hi, just say hi and go back in. Don't let it get anywhere further. Just make up a lame excuse like you left something on the stove or that your friend is waiting inside or your parents are on the phone right now and you were just checking hte mail for them, blah blah.
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Well, since you are only 15, telling your parents IS the best option. They want to protect you from harm.
I will tell you that him being Hispanic and dressing like a gangster is really irrelevant. It isn't how some one looks, but it is their actions that are vital.
The fact that this guy is staring at and spying on a 15 year old girl is not normal. It's perverted, really. Especially considering his age. And he is doing his job while drunk? Shame on him.
I wouldn't just try to avoid this guy. I know you don't want to tell your parents because you don't want trouble, but if this guy is a sexual predator, having him around is just asking for trouble.
I'd wager you aren't the only girl who lives there, and he may be making others feel uncomfortable, too.
Don't take such risks of merely avoiding him- say something. It is the right thing to do.
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