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"him" or them?
how do u no when to pick between him or them? my best guy friend ,who is my former BF, and me are very close but our so called friends talk about us behind our backs about how its weird were still so close and awakward for them if the see us hug..this has made me more mad than him..but it hurts both of us..i feel that i now have to chose between "him" or "them"...
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HIMHIMHIMHIM! He's so sweet! If they are being rude, why in the WORLD would you pick them?! Haha, I have strong opinions about this. :]
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Talk to "them".
Who said you had to choose between them? With your best friend, confront a group of them (or even one by one), and ask them how they feel about the situation and why they say the things they do. Tell them what is really going on, that you two are still friends and are OK with that, because rumors might have gotten started or something.
From what I remember, real friends don't make you pick and choose who you are friends with. If that group continues to make you feel uncomfortable and they don't stop after you ask them to, then I would just let them go and ignore what they say. Hope that helped and good luck.
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Well if they are saying these mean things behind your back, maybe your friends are not really your friends. Id try talking to them and asking them why they are being so rude, and making you feel like you have to choose between them. Try taking you former bf and your friends all out together for 'bonding', i know that is sounds corny, but sometimes it really can work!!
hope everything works out~
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