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OLD FRIENDS AND NEW FRIENDS
Ugh okay well see I was friends with this girl last year and like we kind of drifted apart this year because we don't have any classes together (I'm a freshman btw.) and so I was like hey Jennifer, want to hang out on friday because I haven't seen you in awhile! And she was like sure! I was thinking you me jessica ashley and some sophmore boys could go to glory days. and I'm like ..wtf? does she think she's cool now because she hangs out with sophomress?
anyways.. so I was like uhh okay well who are the other people and she was like well fredrick, lindseys boyfriend and I was like uhm okay well I don't think fredrick or lindsey like me very much (becaues i did hang out with fredrick one time and like we don't talk anymore at all so I thought he just like doesn't like me) and so she was like no he doesn't remember you trust me but it's okay because he forgets names a lot don't worry about it. and like WTF that makes me feel like shit!! wouldn't taht make you feel like shit if someone doesn't remember you? I really want to hang out with jennifer but I don't want to be with fredrick or lindsey or anyone else.
Like I'm not really a let's go out and party with older guys kind of person.. I'm really more like a let's get together and have a sleepover and spend the whole night watching movies and gossiping and crap. But a lot of my friends have turned into those party people and I have now like maybe a few friends who I have sleepovers with all the time because there not like those party people. and I really don't know what to do.
anyways, I was thinking of canceling my plans with jennifer but I mean I don't want her to think that I canceled just because i don't think that fredrick likes me. I mean I really want to hang out with her, but I don't want to go like woohoo party yeah! and that's starting to be the problem with all of my friends.. and if I talk to her and be like hey I really don't want to hang out with them...she's either to go A) Think I'm a loser and get mad at me or B) be like okay that's fine but then tell everyone else why she's not coming and they are going to think I'm a wussy loser.
I really don't know what I'm asking her but PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!
thank you for reading htis
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Love, you need to get out of the house a little more. I mean yeah sure sleepovers are a ton of fun & stuff.. but a party once in awhile is a blast too. It doesn't mean that once you go to a party, thats your whole life. & you can't do anything else. Mix it up a litte,friday.. you go out & party or something..the next day you just chill out more, & have a sleepover. & who cares if this fredrick guy doesnt like you. your not there to see him.. your there to see your friend jessica. its not like you'll be forced to talk to him. (:
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You should tell her about it. She might be hurt but its best to tell her. If she gets mad at your or calls you a loser then why do you want to hang out with her? If she wanted to hang out with you she would understand your not one of the party type people. Just tell her you would like to hang out with her but your not the type that likes to party and stuff. If she tells everyone else about it and they think that stuff then just forget about them and just stick with your friends that you are comfortable with.
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The only thing I could suggest to you is to tell her how you feel about this type of situation and what you wouldn't like about it. She maybe hurt, but that's the best advice I can give to you.
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