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help pleaese~!!!!
Seriously, I REALLY need advice and I don't know who to talk to about it. I WILL RATE 5's for anybody who actually like tries to give a good- like really good answer. Okay this might be long but please. So, I need advice on a couple things, one of which is like at school, people call me a lezbo- WHICH I AM TOTALLY NOT. Like people (even popular) say it sometimes to my face, behind my back, or like say something kinda like "So make out with any hot girls lately" or something like "Yeah, you would look really good with all your hair chopped off- like a dyke", pretty much something like that in a really wise ass way. And I know from reading this you probably think I'm a total nerd, but I'm actually average. People are usually nice to my face but still, it really bugs me thats everyone once in a while people I don't even know, or do, talk about me and say stuff that they don't even know is true. I really would like for someone to help me GET OVER THIS and GET THIS TO STOP. It started last year so I really really want this to stop. I mean I would rather be known as a slut then a lezbo (no offense to anyone). I know I shouldn't care, but it's not something you can really not care about. I don't know maybe its because I never had a boyfriend (not like i don't want one, but that anyone who ever asks me out I don't want to go out with because either i don't know them, or they are one of my best friends) PLEASE! I really need advice, I get so upset about it. One more is, I really need help making new friends. Like I have about only three friends that I actually hang out with outside of school and act like myself around and then the other people are either from other towns or we only hang out once. I have like friends in school, but not the kind that you want to talk to on the computer or call or hang out with. I know its kind of pathetic, but I really do need to make new friends. I'm kid of shy at school and I know if I just acted like how I do around my normal friends (funny and like loud and around guys a total flirt) that I most likely could be in with the "popular kids". ha. yeah so all I want to do is have those rumors stop, and make a WHOLE new bunch of friends. One of my best friends,Casey, ALWAYS hangs out with me and kinda sorta follows me. Im pretty much her only friend because she NEVER talks in school. I really need to kinda of pull away from here because I'm spending all my time with her and not focusing on meeting new people&makin new friends.
Please help.!!!!
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Wow...this sounds to me like my life story. I had it the exact same way! In 8th grade everyone in my grade thought I was a lezbo. It is the worst experience of my life. These people who are calling you them are obviously not your friends. They are hurtful. And are trying to hurt you by calling you these things and saying these things about you. I can't tell you that you should do this or this and it will stop forever but I will say it will get better. I know how lame that sounds but its true. After 8th grade for me I went into high school and in grade 9 and 10 I met people who didn’t even think of that.
As to the being shy. I am extremely shy myself. For some reason I just don't talk around people I don't know. My advice is just start by thinking who do I really want to be friends with? Find that person and slowly start talking to them. With a little hi here and a little hello there you will get the confidence to talk to them. But if they turn out to be jerks. Don’t worry about them.
As for your friend following you. You will want to tell her in a very nice way that she's following you. Maybe give her the same advice as i did in the last paragraph. But just say listen i still want to be your friend and i love hanging out with you all the time but i just need a tiny bit of space to think? Or even something nicer than that? But like i said. It will get better:)
Hope this helps.:)
Ms.Lovely22
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