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shy
I'm wicked shy and no one in my classes knows me. I'm even shy around my friends! If I'm with a bunch of classmates and they are all talking I want to say something so bad but I feel like I'm going to say something stupid and laugh. Usually i never talk and just sit there and listen to them talk, but now I want to be the one talking the most. But i'm so shy and trust me, i try to start conversations but i get soooo scared that i stutter or say something that makes NO sense. i'm getting to a point where no one really even knows what my voice sounds like and i wanna talk but i get so scared and i cant think of anything to say.
i need real answers not ones like "try to start conversations" because i do and DONT say "just say whats on your mind" because i get so scared that my mind goes blank. haha
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sometimes its just small things that start convos like if someone in your class saw a movie you did and theyre talking about it just be like oh yeah i saw that too it was really good did you like the part when...etc. im both shy and not shy. if i know who im around then im completely out there but if im in an uncomfortable situation im pretty quiet. what has worked alot for me, is starting conversations w/ other shy people. usually something really random or funny, just to try to get to know them. i know as a shy person that when someone does this for me i feel more included and by doing this you build self confidence and before you know it youll be jumping into conversations like crazy! good luck!
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ok when someone says something your interested in then say something you know about it.
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