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Okay new topic, I have like no guy friends at all. I really want some just because its nice to be able to talk to some one who isn't a girl, so what are some good ways to strike up conversations?
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Wow I have a regular caller! I feel so proud.
Anyways, it can be hard to strike up a conversation at the best of times, especially with someone who has no common interests. If you are in the same place at the same time, as long as you are polite I don't see why you can't start talking to someone at any time, but it's certainly easier if you have something to talk ABOUT.
Pick your situations well- if you are somewhere you like being (ice rink, library, particular shop, wherever) chances are the people there too will have at least one interest in common with you and that gives you a topic to talk about.
I find the best ways to start a conversation are generally a question or a compliment. Sometimes it can be both e.g.- 'I really like your shoes, where did you get them?' From there you can find another topic to talk about related to where you are and what you are doing. Then, just introduce yourself. If your looking to keep someone interested in talking, say a little about yourself but remember to keep asking about them too.
Two things, numero uno- don't be pushy. If people think you are making a big effort to talk to them, they might think you're weird. If the conversation dies on its own, just let it happen. Say, 'it was nice to meet you' and leave it at that. Then if you bump into them again you know them to greet them.
Second, the second I think I HAVE to say something- i freeze up. Don't put too much thought into it, just be natural.
Hope this helps, peace out.
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