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idk how to tell him how i feel
16/f
Well there is this totally awesome, and wonderful, and like perfect guy that i really really like. The thing is i WANT to tell him but i dont know quite how. i feel if i say 'i like you' would be not enough but if i say 'i love you' would be to strong of a statement. how do i find a happy medium? and how do i come about saying it, and if something were to go terribly wrong, how do i get myself out of the conversation...if you know what i mean
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Hi, I have two suggestions for you that I hope you will find helpful.
#1. You could get him alone, and talk to him face-to-face. And explain to him how you feel, by starting off with something like, "(insert name here) I want/need to tell you something, I really like you a lot..." And continue on from there. If he feels the same, great. However, if he does not, just let him know that you are fine with that, and you can both still be friends. But only say that, of course, if you can handle only being friends with him.
#2. You could ask him on a date, or to go out somewhere [First, before #1 if you choose to do it] together. And see what he says, and how he's acting. Like, walk up to him and say, "Do you want to go to the movies with on [insert day here] night?" Or something like that, and see what he says. If he says yes, I would tell him while out. If he says no, then just say, "okay, thanks anyway." The main point here, is to be casual. As far as asking him.
I wish you the best of luck! :)
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i would say can we be friends after saying hi how are you and start talking. then when say can we hang out sometime. that way he knows you like him and you have a new friend. if things go wrong then just say never mind and walk away and that will make him feel bad and want to be your friend
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Well i spose the medium would be "i like you alot" lol its not quite "i love you" but it shows you do like him greatly. You could talk to him privatly and tell him that you like him alot and ask him out or you could send him a love letter or set up a date. if something goes wrong just say you have to go somewhere or do something. im sure he'll like you though. Hope everything goes well =] love xXxPuNki-PiXiExXx
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